life defining moments…

I was told there are 3-5 life defining moments in one’s life……like the birth of a child……a marriage…..or something like this.

I knew this day would come….i had been waiting for it. I knew joining facebook had the possibility of it, it was just a matter of when.

where.

how.

I had a great group of friends back in elementary school, as a matter of fact….it was the four of us and we did everything together. we even started our own version of the babysitters club.Four friends.

My elementary school went thru 6th grade with 7th and 8th being middle school.

Life was lovely.

Then middle school started.

There really should be no middle school.

I don’t know anyone that loved middle school.

It was fun….for the first couple of months anyways.

The four of us…..

my good friends….the other 3 girlfriends that i loved…….

and one day……

dumped me.

i use that term nicely.

dumped.

i was humiliated.

i had to start my life completely over and to tell you the truth, it’s probably the reason i hated school so much.

Oh, i made new friends and survived but the fact is and was….

i was dumped by my 3 best buds.

my besties…

this was a life defining moment.

to this day i’m still very touchy about friendships…i don’t get very connected or deep.

oh, i have plenty of friends, but i only have a handful that thru the years have i stayed connected with….a handful.

which brings me to today …..

one of those girls contacted me……

“hey kasey…..remember me….jenny from elementary school……remember?”……

oh yeah….jenny…..i remember you…….you dumped me..right?……that jenny..is that you?

“lol….ha….i guess that’s a harsh word….but ……oh…yeah…your right…..maybe we call it water under the

bridge and start over”.

start over?

seriously?

flash back to life defining moment……

So….this is where you my lovely friends can help me…….maybe you’ve been there…..

Do i say “heck with it”, let’s be best buds…..i mean really….i’m not 13 anymore…i’m 34 and married with children…..with awesome blog readers…….and…..

or

let it be…..not accept her invite to be friends……
oh….the trials and tribulations…….

xo

..on a lighter note……my home was featured on this awesome blog yesterday.

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