Infidelity….

I wasn’t really going to post about the infamous I word….because seriously…

well…

i’m just in the middle of a million things at the moment…

but this is tugging at me..

so here we go.

We all know by now what Tiger has done…

i mean..have you seen his wife.

gorgeous.

And i love that guy…i mean we as a family do…

my son knows who he is…

he just eludes the all american dream…

where you can achieve your dream.

CRASH.

I was reading somewhere yesterday that said something to the effect

of….

what is with the superstars that make tons of money and have hot wives?

Ahem..

excuse me

Men everyday cheat on their wives.

everyday.

Real..normal…family men cheat on their wives…

if this is news to you…then i’m so sorry.

The reality is…it happens….

pastors of fabulous churches cheat….

it happens

good…well educated..men cheat…

it happens.

The reason i’m bringing this up is because i have a few friends

that have struggled with this issue….

Women and men don’t think the same. they don’t.

Men are sexual creatures my nature…

women are not.

I’ve seen a really good friend lose everything because her

husband made a bad decision…

but she picked herself up and now is remarried and happy.

and another friend that made the decision to save her

marriage…and keep her family intact…

but everyday is a battle…of trust.

I work really hard at my marriage….

and maybe it’s because deep down i know how men

are visual creatures…but i want my man happy..

and happy at home.

Nobody is perfect….nobody.

Relationships are the hardest work…i know…

i work really hard at mine…

it’s work…with the reward being happiness.
How hard do work at your relationship?

Have you ever been there….and what has become of

your situation?

I think we could all benefit to hear….
I want to hear the happy stories also;-)

{feel free to comment anonymously…..}

xo

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