reaching ….

Every once in a while it is O.K. to be a…. little ….naughty.

Tomorrow i am making a naughty decision….but it’s in the best interest of my little girl.

You see…..i have a little girl who is wedged in between two boys…

you could call it….middle child complex……

we’ve been struggling for a while…..and i don’t know if it is because we are

so similar in our ways…..we both are so strong willed . hard headed.

I am a firm believer in raising strong girls but lately …..with the way she speaks to me

……the way she is acting…..

something is going on in her little brain that i can’t grasp.

Is she wanting to be heard…..is she overwhelmed…….is she unhappy……

And it’s only with me.

It breaks my heart…..because i get mad…………i get frustrated…..and i get angry with her.

I am sad.

sad that i get mad at her.

sad that she needs something that i’m not giving her.

So with me heading out of town on Friday for a long weekend away {girls trip to Ohio for the Country Living Fair..}………….

i have decided to pull Lola out of school tomorrow and spend it with just her and i.

I don’t know what we will do yet….maybe breakfast….the park….. just a few hours while her brothers are

in school and it’s just her and i……

i am going to be totally unselfish for the day and spend it with a little girl that is really in need of her mom.
{suggestions always welcome..because i realize while i’m not perfect…and no mother is…but women helping women is always appreciated.}

xo

{image from HERE}

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